Monday, June 24, 2013

Living Water

“Lord, you are the hope of Israel; all who forsake you will be put to shame. Those who turn away from you will be written in the dust because they have forsaken the Lord, the spring of living water.” (Jeremiah 17:13)


Yesterday my husband Brad and I joined a Smithsonian Association day-long tour to learn about the Jewish community in Baltimore, which is quite large and has an interesting history. One of the places we visited was a mikveh. In case you’re not familiar with the term, this is a pool of water that Jews immerse themselves in to achieve ritual purity. It must be a “natural collection” of “living water” from rainfall or a flowing stream. Its main uses nowadays are by married Jewish women after menstruation or childbirth, by Jewish men before daily prayer or the sabbath, as part of the process of conversion to Judaism, and to purify utensils used for food (especially if they were fabricated by a non-Jew).

On the way home I began to think about the like between water and purity, and how water has a central place in the practices and beliefs of many religions. In the first place, water makes things clean. It washes away impurities and pollutants, and can make an object appear as good as new. It can also make a person clean, externally or spiritually, and ready to come into the presence of God.  In the second place, water is a primary building block of life.  Without water there is no life, yet water has the power to destroy as well as to create.  We are sometimes at the mercy of water just as we are at the mercy of God.  (Recent floods in the American Midwest come to mind…)

In Judaism ritual washing is intended to restore or maintain a state of ritual purity, and its origins can be found in the Torah (the first five books of the Old Testament).  It can be washing the hands, the hands and the feet, or total immersion in the sea, a river, a spring or in a mikveh. 

The story of the Great Flood is told in Genesis 6-8.  God destroyed humanity by sending a great flood.  Only Noah and his family and a pair of each animal were saved in the ark built by Noah.  Afterwards God promised he would never attempt to destroy the earth again and sent the rainbow as a sign of this covenant.  The story of a Great Flood is also found in other cultures such as the Australian Aborigines and some Pacific Islanders.  But the Israelites' story is different because it emphasizes the ethical demands of God.  The flood is a divine punishment from which Noah survives because of his moral worthiness.  The Flood washed away all the sins of the world so that we could start afresh.  This is echoed in Christianity by the death and resurrection of Christ that eradicates sin so that nothing will stand in the way of man and God.

The Red Sea is significant in Jewish history because its parting by Moses was a miraculous event at the beginning of the Exodus which enabled the Israelites to escape from the Egyptian army that was chasing them.  God allowed Moses to part the sea so that the Israelites could walk safely to the other side on dry land, while the Egyptians drowned as the sea came together again.  This miracle was a reward for the faith of Moses and the Israelites, God's Chosen People.  The parting and crossing of the Red Sea shows that God has power over nature, even the mighty oceans.  Water here is powerful, but an instrument of God for punishment (for the Egyptians) and blessing (for the Israelites).

Almost all Christian churches have an initiation ritual involving the use of water.  Baptism has its origins in the baptism of Jesus by John the Baptist in the Jordan River.  After Jesus' resurrection he commanded his disciples to baptize in the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit (Matthew 28:19-20).  Baptism is a symbol of liberation from the oppression of sin that separates us from God. The use of water is important for its own symbolic value in three ways: it cleanses and washes away dirt, fills everything it enters as God fills those who are immersed in Him and we need water to survive physically as we need God to survive spiritually.  In the early church baptism was usually performed with the person standing in water and with water being poured over the upper part of the body.  This was called “immersion” but today the term refers to the method of dipping the whole body under water which is used, for example, by the Baptist and Orthodox churches.  In most Western churches today the rite is performed by pouring water over the head three times (affusion) and sometimes sprinkling water over the head (aspersion).

Another important significance of water for Christianity is the "living water" that Jesus described himself as.  John 4: 1-42 is the story of Jesus and a Samaritan woman to whom he offers living water so that she will never thirst again. In other words, she will achieve eternal life through him. 

Holy water is water which is blessed for use in certain rites, especially that which is blessed at the Easter Vigil for baptism of catechumens.  The use of water other than for baptism goes back to the 4th century in the East and the 5th century in the West.  The custom of sprinkling people with water at mass began in the 9th century.  At this time “stoups”, basins for holy water from which people could sprinkle themselves on entering a church, came into common use.  Holy water is also used at blessings, dedications, exorcisms and burials.

Ablutions in Christianity are mainly baptism and the washing of fingers and communion vessels after the communion.  This takes place in two parts.  Firstly the chalice is rinsed with the wine, and then the chalice and priests' fingers with wine and water.  This ablution is important because after the bread and wine has been consecrated, Christ is believed to be present. 

In Islam water is also important for cleansing and purifying.  Muslims must be ritually pure before approaching God in prayer.  Some mosques have a courtyard with a pool or fountain of clear water in the centre, but in most mosques the ablutions are found outside the walls. Ritual purity is required before carrying out religious duties, especially worship. There are three kinds of ablutions.  Firstly, ghusl, the major ablution, is the washing of the whole body in pure water, after declaring the intention to do so.  Muslims are obliged to perform ghusl after sex which incurs a state of major ritual impurity.  It is also recommended before the Friday prayer, the two main feasts, before touching the Koran, and for the dead before they are buried. The second ablution is wudu, the minor ablution, which is performed to remove minor ritual impurity from everyday life.  This must be done before each of the five daily prayers and involves using pure water to wash the face with pure water, rub the head with water, and wash the hands and arms up to the elbows and the feet up to the ankles. The third type of ablution is performed when no water is available.  In this case clean sand may be used.

 Water in Hinduism has a special place because it is believed to have spiritually cleansing powers.  To Hindus all water is sacred, especially rivers, and there are seven sacred rivers: the Ganges, Yamuna, Godavari, Sarasvati, Narmada, Sindhu and Kaveri.  Although Hinduism encompasses so many different beliefs, most Hindus share a belief in the importance of striving to attain purity and avoiding pollution.  This relates to both physical cleanliness and spiritual well-being. Every temple has a pond near it and devotees are supposed to take a bath before entering the temple.

Pilgrimage is very important to Hindus.  Holy places are usually located on the banks of rivers, coasts, seashores and mountains.  Sites of convergence, between land and river or two, or even better three, rivers, carry special significance and are especially sacred.  Sacred rivers are thought to be a great equalizer.  In the Ganges the pure are made even more pure and the impure have their pollution removed if only temporarily. 

For Hindus, morning cleansing with water is a basic obligation.  Tarpana is the point at which the worshipper makes a cup with his hands and pours the water back into the river reciting mantras.  After sipping some water, he may then apply the distinguishing mark of his tradition, and say the morning prayer.  

The story of the Great Flood of Manu appears in Hindu scriptures.  This is the story of how all creation is submerged in a great deluge but Manu is rescued by a fish that he once saved from being eaten by a larger fish.  The fish told him to build a large boat and to take into it seeds and animals.  The fish then towed the boat to safety by anchoring it on the highest of the Himalayas.  He stayed on the mountain (known as Manu's Descent) while the flood swept away all living creatures. Manu alone survived.

Shinto is Japan's indigenous religion and is based on the veneration of the kami -- the deities believed to inhabit mountains, trees, rocks, springs and other natural phenomenon.  Worship of kamis, whether public or private, always begins with purification by water.  Troughs for ritual washing are placed inside many sacred shrines.  Waterfalls are held sacred and standing under them is believed to purify. 

Purity and pollution are central concerns in Zoroastrian thought and practice. The significance of water in Zoroastrianism is a combination of its purifying properties and its importance as a fundamental life element.  Therefore, while water is used in purification rites and rituals, it is sacred itself and so must be kept from being polluted. Zoroastrianism is a dualistic religion with emphasis placed on the opposing forces of good and evil.  When the world was created the Evil Spirit Angra Mainyu attacked the earth and, among other things, made pure water salty.  Zoroastrians believe that pollution is evil and that water, when pure, is sacred.  Zoroastrians themselves must avoid pollution of any kind and must perform ritual ablutions before saying their prayers (which are said 5 times a day facing a source of light) and before any religious ceremonies such as weddings.  

The sanctity of water is very important to Zoroastrians.  People must not urinate, spit or wash one's hands in a river or allow anyone else to.  In Zoroastrianism the dead are not cremated, buried or immersed in water because fire, earth and water must be kept pure.  Instead, corpses are left to birds of prey.  

Zoroastrians believe in 6 benevolent divine beings known as Amesha Spentas. Haurvatat (meaning wholeness, health and integrity) is a feminine being and the creator of water, and is represented by consecrated water used in priestly acts of worship.  The holy day of Haurvatat and water is in midsummer and people pray and make offerings by the seashore or any natural water.  In everyday life Haurvatat is observed by keeping water unpolluted and being temperate and self-disciplined.  

Zoroastrianism also has a Great Flood story.  Ahura Mazda warned Yima that destruction in the form of floods, subsequent to the melting of the snow, was threatening the sinful world and gave him instructions for building a boat in which specimens of small and large cattle, humans, dogs, birds, fires, plants and foods were to be deposited in pairs.

For Buddhists, most symbolism and ritual is pointless because they seek spiritual enlightenment that comes from seeing the “reality of unreality.” But even in Buddhism, water has a role. In Buddhist funerals, water is poured into a bowl placed before the monks and the dead body.  As it fills and pours over the edge, the monks recite, "As the rains fill the rivers and overflow into the ocean, so likewise may what is given here reach the departed."
  
“For the Lamb at the center of the throne will be their shepherd; he will lead them to springs of living water. And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes.” (Revelation 7:17)

Monday, June 17, 2013

Justified By His Grace

"This Spirit he poured out on us richly through Jesus Christ our Saviour, so that, having been justified by his grace, we might become heirs according to the hope of eternal life." (Titus 3:6-7)

Yesterday morning's lessons, and our rector's sermon that followed, were wonderful source material for today's meditation!

The first lesson, 2 Samuel 11:26 - 12:10, 13-15, tells us what happened after King David sent Uriah the Hittite to his death, and took Bathsheba as his wife. God wasn't the slightest bit amused, and sent his prophet Nathan to deliver the message of his anger. 

The second lesson, Galatians 2:15-21, tells us about the difference between Jews and Christians, between the law and faith, between actions and grace. "We ourselves are Jews by birth and not Gentile sinners; yet we know that a person is justified not by the works of the law but through faith in Jesus Christ. And we have come to believe in Christ Jesus, so that we might be justified by faith in Christ, and not by doing the works of the law, because no one will be justified by the works of the law. But if, in our effort to be justified in Christ, we ourselves have been found to be sinners, is Christ then a servant of sin? Certainly not! But if I build up again the very things that I once tore down, then I demonstrate that I am a transgressor. For through the law I died to the law, so that I might live to God. I have been crucified with Christ; and it is no longer I who live, but it is Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. I do not nullify the grace of God; for if justification comes through the law, then Christ died for nothing."

What do these two lessons have in common? The answer is justification, explained by Father Bob as "right (or righteous) relationships." David's desire for Bathsheba wasn't, in itself, a sin. But the way he acted on his desire clearly was. Sending Uriah to his death wasn't what anyone might call a right relationship, so his relationship with Bathsheba couldn't possibly be a right relationship either. It was what our legal system calls "fruit of the poison tree." As a result of all this, David's previous right relationship with God was ended. God "put away" David's sin -- an incredibly generous thing to do -- but the relationship was never the same again.

Paul's letter to the Galatians tells us that before Jesus Christ, Jews considered themselves to be justified --in right relationships with God and their fellow man -- if they followed God's law. The more carefully they followed the law, in all its complexity, the more justified they were. They were righteous through deeds. But after Jesus Christ's death and resurrection, everything changed. We could no longer be justified by deeds along, but by faith in God and by receiving God's grace. It was as if we suddenly became fully alive.

I was struck by the coincidence (or maybe not a coincidence) that these lessons, and this sermon, were shared on a Sunday that two infants were baptized, that celebrated Fathers' Day, and that was one day after Flag Day. When we baptize someone, we "receive them into the Household of God." No better place to be! This puts the person in a good relationship with God and with the entire Christian community. On Fathers' Day we celebrate family relationships, especially the relationship between a father and his children. And on Flag Day we celebrate the relationship between a people and their country.

Being justified, having right relationships, requires effort. Having a right relationship with God calls for faith which, at difficult times in our lives, can be a challenge. Having a right relationship with our fellow man calls for giving as well as taking, active listening, compassion and love. Having right relationships within a family calls for respect, understanding, a willingness to work through the hard parts and, in the case of children, discipline as well as love. And having a right relationship with our country calls for personal participation as well as visible patriotism.

It is my hope that we all, being justified by His grace, may have these kinds of right relationships.

Monday, June 10, 2013

Negotiating the Grey Areas

My horoscope in today's Washington Post said that I wouldn't be faced with very good things or very bad things, but that instead I'd be "negotiating the grey areas." Well, that was certainly food for thought, and ever since I read it (with my first cup of morning coffee) I've been looking out for the grey areas.

Are we all on the same page with that phrase? For me a grey area is something that is between two opposites -- often viewed as good or bad -- and requires the exercise of personal judgement. Like grey area between obsessing over an issue or a problem (and driving yourself crazy) and deciding to ignore it (I call that the Scarlett O'Hara approach, as in "I'll think about it tomorrow"). Or a grey area between being a helicopter  parent who schedules and supervises a child every waking moment, and the other kind of parent who perhaps shouldn't be a parent at all.

Some people don't seem to think there ARE grey areas. They come in all shapes and sizes, liberal and conservative, Christians and atheists. Things are either good or bad, actions are either right or wrong. There is no intermediate place where what's right or good for one person might be wrong or bad for another. Some people believe that abortion is always wrong, even to save the life of the mother. Other people believe that government intervention can solve all social problems, even when it leads to a dwindling of initiative and personal responsibility.

Back to the horoscope, and "negotiating" the grey areas. Interesting use of a word with more than one meaning. We negotiate a path that has pitfalls and obstacles in it, trying to avoid the bad places and make it safely to the end. We also negotiate deals, trying to find solutions that meets the minimum needs of both parties. In the case of grey areas, I think either meaning could apply. In the grey areas of morals and ethics we try to avoid the bad places. In the grey areas of interpersonal relations we try to find win-win solutions.

Grey areas call for thought and decision, not knee-jerk reaction. I think I successfully negotiated a grey area in my chaplain duties this afternoon. A 43-year-old man was brought to the busy emergency room, having suffered cardiac arrest, and could not be revived. He left a wife, two young sons and several other family members who were obviously close to him. While talking with his wife, I overheard his niece say that one of the ER staff made her angry. In tears, she said he passed the room where her late uncle was lying, looked in and said "We won't bother with that one." She wanted his name, so that she could lodge a complaint. I could easily have said, "How insensitive! I'll get you his name." Or I could have said, "I'm sure he didn't mean it that way." Instead I asked her if I could talk with him and she said yes. I explained the situation to him, and learned that he and another staff member were looking for a piece of equipment, checking each room. When he saw that this room held a recently-deceased patient, he did say those words, but meant that they would pass over the room in consideration of the deceased and his family. He was chagrined that the niece thought he was being insensitive and disrespectful, and asked me to express his apology to her, promising to be more careful in the future. I did, the niece listened to the story, and a serious problem was averted.

God gave us brains because he meant for us to think and to choose. In the April 23, 2010 edition of his "Turning Point" daily devotional, David Jeremiah wrote: "It would be nice to be told, when we leave on a long car trip, something like this: 'I want you to know that you are going to reach your destination safely and on schedule. Regardless of what happens en route--you may get lost, you may encounter a fierce rainstorm, and you may have a flat tire--don't worry. I am here to promise you that you will arrive.'" We've been given this promise by God concerning our spiritual journey, and it takes the form of grace. We shouldn't let obstacles along the road shake our confidence in God's promise. If we use our judgement wisely, grace is God's promise that we will arrive.


Saturday, June 8, 2013

The Righteous and the Self-Righteous

The Collect for tomorrow, the Third Sunday after Pentecost:

O God, from whom all good proceeds: Grant that by your inspiration we may think those things that are right, and by your merciful guiding may do them; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

I focus on the words, "think those things that are right, and ... do them." That brings to mind the word "righteous," a word that most often has a positive connotation. What does it mean to be righteous? The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines it as "acting in accordance with divine or moral law." In the Old Testament, God is righteous, but some people are also referred to as righteous, beginning with Noah and Abraham. In the Prophets, righteousness is often tied to social justice, as a covenental obligation. In the Psalms, righteousness is grounded in the character of God. He is righteous, His law is righteous, and He alone credits righteousness to man. In the New Testament, the concept of righteousness is applied to Christ, and Paul urges believers to offer themselves up as" instruments of righteousness."

OK, now we've got a bit of a handle on what it means to be righteous. What about "self-righteous," a term that has a very different connotation. Back to Merriam-Webster, it's defined as "convinced of one's own righteousness, especially in contrast with the actions and beliefs of others." The Pharisees were self-righteous because they were convinced that they were holier than other Jews. But Jesus said, "Beware of practicing your righteousness before men to be noticed by them; otherwise you have no reward with your Father who is in heaven." (Matthew 6:1)

Christians who act as if they're better than everyone else aren't living by the teachings of Christianity. Christianity says that all people are sinners, and none can be righteous on the basis of their own behavior. Jesus said that we shouldn't act like we're better than others just to get noticed. This kind of "holier-than-thou" attitude is strongly condemned in the Bible, and is antithetical to the charity, humility and forgiveness that Jesus taught to his followers.

The opportunity for self-righteousness isn't limited to spiritual things. The "good things" mentioned in the Collect can turn into bad things if they are accompanied by too much pride. Are you a vegetarian who looks down on anyone who eats meat? Do you chastise those who don't share your political views? Are you the sort of person who volunteers at a soup kitchen, and then makes sure that everyone knows about it? Have you ever been self-righteous about something in your life? I know that I have.

Monday, June 3, 2013

How Do You Feel About Mondays?

It's Monday, the start of a new work week. If you're in Europe (and maybe other parts of the world) it's the start of a new week. I was surprised the first time I noticed that European calendars start the week with Monday instead of Sunday!

Many of us who work at a full-time nine-to-five job approach Monday with resignation ... sometimes even with dread. We've been able to do whatever we wanted to do on Saturday and Sunday. Now, on Monday, we have to do what we have to do. If we love our work it's less of a problem. But even great jobs come with irksome tasks and troublesome people. That's reality.

Others of us might dread Monday for another reason. The stay-at-home parent of young children is now left with sole custody of the little darlings, now that the other parent has gone to work. Older people with too much time on their hands are sorry that weekend visits from children and grandchildren are over until next time.

Do you look at Monday as a painful reality? Can you imagine a different scenario, when Monday -- or any day -- is a brand-new opportunity?

Ralph Waldo Emerson wrote, “Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day. You shall begin it serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense.” 

How do you feel about Mondays? Tell me your story.....

"Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. I say to myself, 'The Lord is my portion; therefore I will wait for him.'" (Lamentations 3:22-24)